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Ariel Mayrose
Holistic Therapist
Join Me in Living a Healthy and Fulfilling Life , Filled with Love, Joy and Abundance!
What Prevents Us From Finding
Joy and Satisfaction in Our Relationship?
We tend to blame others for our situation instead of looking inward.
Our survival instincts lead to automatic responses like attack, escape, or shutdown
(Fight, Flight & Freeze), responses that don't solve the problem
and only increase our frustration and suffering.
Over time, many couples lose the spark of love and don't know how to reignite it.
My Approach:
Compassionate Communication and Polar Relationships
I support couples in cultivating loving, meaningful connections by using Compassionate Communication (Nonviolent Communication – NVC), alongside understanding and exploring the interplay of feminine and masculine energies.
Compassionate Communication is a simple and effective method that helps us express ourselves clearly and authentically while being sensitive to the needs and feelings of others. Using NVC is an excellent way to resolve conflicts peacefully.
Polar relationship are defined by the interplay of opposing energies – the feminine and masculine, the active and receptive, the Yin and the Yang. Polarity ignites the spark of attraction and sustains intimacy. By understanding its principles, you will be able to harmonize your energy with your partner's, fostering a deep connection and cultivating a loving and fulfilling intimate relationship.
Through our coaching process, you'll gain practical tools from Compassionate Communication (NVC) and polarity work. You will be able to apply these methods immediately, fostering deeper understanding, harmony, and lasting love with your partner. By embracing compassionate communication and understanding the interplay of feminine and masculine energies, you'll cultivate a profound connection in your relationships. This holistic approach not only resolves conflicts peacefully but also nurtures a fulfilling, loving, and enduring partnership.
What Will You Gain From This
Transformative Holistic Couple's Coaching?
Tools
for effective communication.
Master
Conflict resolution and anger management.
Discover
Polarity work
for balanced energy with your partner.
Explore
Tao-Tantra for
deep connection
and lasting love.
Transform
relationship frustrations into understanding and empathy.
Experience
Profound transformation for peaceful, joyful and loving relationships
Testimonials
Dear Ariel, I am so happy to tell you that things at home have really improved!
We know how to talk, know how to handle conflicts, know how to make peace, really much better. Let it continue like this.
Sivan, after five sessions of couple counseling.
Overcome Relationship Obstacles
with Compassionate Communication
Interpersonal communication often faces challenges due to our natural tendency to focus outward rather than inward. Our outward-facing eyes see others as responsible for our personal difficulties. When our desires and needs are not met, we tend to judge, criticize, and blame others. This very criticism causes others to get hurt, defend themselves and counter attack, creating a negative cycle that makes it even more difficult for us to realize our needs. This cycle of criticism triggers defensive responses, hindering our ability to fulfill our needs effectively. Furthermore, societal norms emphasizing good/ evil, right/ wrong, and should/ shouldn't (as expressed in legal, educational, media, and political systems) exacerbate these challenges, making it very difficult for us to break free from these destructive communication patterns.
Nonviolent Communication (NVC), developed by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg in the 1970s, offers a solution to these communication hurdles. By shifting the focus inward, NVC helps individuals understand and express themselves constructively, leading to win-win resolutions leading to win-win resolutions that satisfy all parties involved in conflicts.
By Learning NVC You Will:
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Redirect your focus from others to yourself, and by doing so - becoming attuned to your own feelings and needs in a profound way.
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Replace habitual criticism with understanding and empathy, both for yourself and others.
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Communicate your feelings and needs without placing blame.
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Fulfill your own needs effectively, while supporting others in fulfilling their own needs.
By breaking the cycle of negativity, you'll cultivate constructive and intimate communication with your partner, making it easier to meet both your needs in a mutually satisfying manner.
This couples' process in NVC will equip you with practical tools for enjoyable, empathetic communication, not only with your partner, but also in all aspects of your relationships and family life.
THE TAO
The Great Unity of All
The Way of the Universe
YANG
Active
masculine
YIN
Receptive
Feminine
TAI CHI (Harmony)
The Universe inside of Me
The Way of Myself
Polars of Attraction: Yin-Yang Relationships
The interaction of opposing and complementary forces is the essence of a polar relationship. In any successful relationship, there exists a delicate dance of energies—a dynamic interplay of Yin and Yang, active and receptive forces. This polarity ignites the spark of attraction and sustains the flame of intimacy. In romantic partnerships, this is evident in the magnetic attraction between partners, where opposites not only attract but also complement each other's strengths and weaknesses. By embracing the fluidity of energy, partners can cultivate an authentic and balanced connection, free from restrictive gender roles and expectations.
Gender does not determine whether you have more Yin or Yang energy at any given moment, as both Yin and Yang qualities exist within each individual. However, generally, Yin is more associated with the feminine, while Yang is with the masculine.
While the concept of Polar Relationships may seem abstract, it deeply influence how we connect with others and navigate the complexities of intimacy. Embracing this concept offers profound insights into the art of self-fulfillment and cultivating meaningful connections. In our sessions, you will acquire practical tools designed to balance your energy, fostering a deeper connection with your partner and cultivating a loving and fulfilling intimate relationship.
Impact on Communication and Conflict Resolution
Understanding polarity can significantly enhance communication and conflict resolution within relationships. By recognizing the inherent differences in energy between individuals, partners can empathize with each other's perspectives. This leads to a deeper connection and intimacy, fostering mutual respect and appreciation for each other's unique paths.
This understanding involves recognizing your current energetic phase and correlating it with that of your partner. This can be done using various techniques, one of which is consulting the I Ching, the ancient "Book of Changes." Revered as the "Bible" of Yin-Yang relationships, the I Ching is the cornerstone of Chinese culture, influencing everything from medicine to the arts, and even to sexuality. This ancient text guides you to act with greater calmness and clarity by aligning your actions with your energetic state. Such alignment allows for efficient energy use, enhances intuition, and empowers decision-making.
Ronit and Hagai began a couples' process just after deciding to get married. As Hagai faced relationship challenges with his family, he found it hard to accept the big wedding ceremony Ronit wanted. Ronit was pressuring Hagai to proceed with the wedding arrangements and resolve his family issues, causing him significant stress and risking the wedding. Through our sessions, Ronit realized that pushing forward (Yang) was not the right approach. Instead, she needed to be more receptive (Yin) to Hagai's challenges. Using NVC, Ronit became more compassionate and supportive, allowing Hagai to focus on healing his relationship with his parents. As Hagai made peace with his family, he became more open to the idea of a big ceremony with their support.
By embracing Yin and Yang dynamics and alongside practicing Compassionate Communication, Ronit and Hagai achieved relational harmony and profound personal growth. Resolving the immediate conflict over their wedding not only strengthened their bond but also laid a solid foundation for their future together, enabling them to navigate future challenges with compassion and understanding.
Cultivating a Deep Connection and Lasting Intimacy
As relationships evolve, the dynamics of polarity may shift, requiring partners to adapt and rediscover their connection. While the initial spark of attraction may fade, cultivating polarity can reignite the flames of passion and keep the relationship vibrant and alive. Partners can revive their sense of adventure by exploring new ways to connect intimately. This ongoing exploration allows them to continue growing and evolving together, deepening their bond and sustaining their love for years to come.
Sexual Healing
Differing levels of sexual desire are a common issue in relationships, as Yariv and Nurit experienced. Yariv yearned for more frequent intimacy, while Nurit did not share the same level of desire. To address this, we established a weekly 'intimate date' to provide a structured space for intimacy. This ritual ensured at least one meaningful sexual encounter per week for Yariv while also creating a safe environment for Nurit, where she felt respected and not pressured outside of these designated times.
In addition to the intimate dates, we integrated Qigong exercises to help Yariv manage his sexual desire at other times, reducing tension in his sexual chakra. Throughout our sessions, I also guided Yariv to recognize that the feminine qualities he admired in Nurit—such as gentleness and intuition—were qualities he could embody himself. This realization allowed him to be less reliant on Nurit and to develop a more balanced approach, enhancing Nurit's sense of security and empowerment in their relationship.
As Yariv and Nurit embraced these practices, they navigated their dynamic with a deeper understanding of their individual energies within the relationship. Feeling safer, Nurit gradually embraced her own Yang energy, expressing a renewed desire for intimacy. Embracing her Yang qualities allowed Nurit to relax more deeply into her feminine (Yin) energy, fostering a more harmonious and fulfilling intimate connection between them.
To deepen their bond, I introduced to Nurit and Yariv the Tao-Tantric approach to enhance their pleasure and passion for each other and to celebrate their union in love.
A Union of Love
Tao-Tantra is the experience of making a profound bond between the Yin and Yang, the masculine and feminine, that resides within us. In couplehood, it manifests as a physical, emotional, energetic, and spiritual connection between two people, uniting them as one.
Tao-Tantra is a celebration of this loving union that transcends physical boundaries and cultivates a deep sense of connection and intimacy. Through practices rooted in Taoist philosophy, couples explore the depths of their intimate connection by cultivating and surrendering to the flow of energy between them. Embracing the principles of polarity and nurturing energy flow, along with mindfulness, presence, and deep reverence for each other, partners unlock the true potential of their relationship.
This path lays the foundation for spiritual growth, transformation, and boundless joy, leading to profound states of bliss, ecstasy, and enlightenment—a true union of love.
Testimonials
Dear Ariel, I am so happy to tell you that things at home have really improved!
We know how to talk, know how to handle conflicts, know how to make peace, really much better. Let it continue like this.
Sivan, after five sessions of couple counseling.
In recent years, the concept of marriage and long-term relationships has been challenged, as evidenced by high divorce rates. Integrating Compassionate Communication and Polar Yin-Yang Relationships not only sustains long-term relationships but also deepens and nurtures intimate connections. This holistic approach empowers you to shape your marital life and cultivate a true, meaningful relationship. By fostering understanding and harmonizing energies, these practices offer transformative tools to navigate challenges and unite partners in a profound and lasting bond.
The mixture of compassionate communication and Polar Yin-Yang relationship
is holistic and power-full.
Together, we can elevate your relationship to a supportive and satisfying connection,
enabling you to live in love, harmony and joy.
A life you so heartily deserve to have.
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